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作者:8+1工作室 刘强  时间:2015-06-23 11:14:20    浏览数:

 学生因为争吵,关系变得尴尬,也因此影响了心情,影响了学习。一次学生闹矛盾甚至到了动手的程度,我便给学生们讲了一个故事:

魔方娱乐DAXUETONGXUEDEERZISHANGYOUERYUAN,XIANGWOQINGJIAOWEISHENMEXIAOHAIZIBUYUANYIQUSHANGXUE,MEICIDOUKUZHEQUXUEXIAO。WOJITAFENXILEYIXIEYUANYIN。YISHIHAIZIKENENGHUIRENWEIBAMABUYAOTALE,YINWEIQUXUEXIAOYAOHEBAMAFENLI,ZHEIZAISHANGXUEZHIQIANKECONGLAIMEIYOUFENKAIGUODE。SUOYISONGTAQUXUEXIAOSHIYAOHAOHAODEANWEITA,GAOSUTABAMAAITA,FANGXUEHOUHUIDIYISHIJIANLAIJIETA。ERSHIYAORANGTAZAIXUEXIAOBEIGUANAI。KEYIRANGLAOSHIDUOGUANXIN,GENGZHONGYAODESHIYUXIAOPENGYOUMENDEGUANXIYAOHAO。TAWENRUHERANGHAIZIYUXIAOPENGYOUMENGAOHAOGUANXINI?WOSHUOKEYINAYIXIEXIHUANDEDONGXIYUXIAOPENGYOUMENFENXIANG,HUOZHEMEITIANKOUDAILIZHUANGYIXIETANGGUOZHILEIDE,DAOXUEXIAOYUXIAOPENGYOUMENFENXIANG。YERANGTAXUEHUIGUANXINAIKUDEXIAOPENGYOUZHILEIDENGDENG。

SHI:DAJIAYEXUGANJUEDAOHENKEXIAOBA,DANSHINIMENSHANGXUEDESHIHOUBUYESHIZHEIYANGMA?WEISHENMEPAQUXUEXIAO?YINWEIXUEXIAOLIKENENGYOUYIGETEBIEAIQIFURENDEXIAOPENGYOU,ZHEIYANGDEXIAOPENGYOUCHENGLENIDEEMENGBA。

魔方娱乐SHENG:JIUSHI。(XUDUOXUESHENGDIANTOUBIAOSHITONGYI)

SHI:GUOLEYIDUANYIHOU,NIMENZAIXUEXIAOLIYOULEPENGYOU,YOULESHUOHUADEXIAOHUOBAN,YOULEGUANXINZIJIDELAOSHI,NIMENZEMANMANDEJIESHOUXUEXIAO,XIHUANSHANGYOUERYUAN。

SHENG:SHIDE。

魔方娱乐SHI:DANSHIMOUYITIAN,NIYOUBUXIANGQULE,YUANYINYOUHENDUO,DANYEXUYOUYITIAO,NEIJIUSHI:NIZAIXUEXIAOBEIHUAIHAIZIQIFULE,NIBUXIANGMIANDUIZHEIYANGDEQINGJING,NIGANJUEDAOLEXUEXIAODEBUMEIHAOLE。

SHENG:QUESHIYOUGUOZHEIYANGDEQINGKUANG。

SHI:YINGGAISHIZHEIYANG,WOERZISHANGYOUERYUANDESHIHOU,SHENSHANG,LIANSHANGJINGCHANGYOUBEIZHUADESHANGHEN,KEJIANXUEXIAOSHIDUOMEWEIXIANDE。(SHENGDAXIAO)

SHI:JINTIANWOMENLAIJIANG“TONGXUEGUANXI”,DUI“TONGXUEGUANXI”DELIJIE,YOUSHEIYUANYIFENXIANGYIXIA?

魔方娱乐SHENG1:TONGXUESHIYIZHONGYUANFEN。

SHENG2:LAOSHICENGSHUOGUOHEYIXIERENTONGZAIYIGEDIFANGFENDOUSANNIAN,ZHEIYANGDERENZAIYISHENGZHONGDOUSHIFEICHANGSHAODE。

魔方娱乐SHENG3:TONGXUEZHIJIANYINGGAIXIANGHUGUANXIN,XIANGHUBANGZHU。CHUMENZAIWAIQIUXUEBURONGYI,SHENBIANDEDOUSHITONGXUE。

魔方娱乐SHI:DAJIALIJIEDEBUCUOMA,DOUZHIDAOTONGXUEGUANXIDEZHONGYAOXING。TONGXUEGUANXISHIRENJIGUANXIZHONGZUIMIQIEDEGUANXIZHIYI,YESHIYIZHONGZUICHUNJIEDERENJIGUANXI。YINWEITONGXUEZHIJIANMEIYOU LIHAICHONGTU,BUCUNZAISHEHUISHANGRENJIGUANXIZHONGNEIYANGDUODEFUZAYINSU。WOGUOCHUANTONGLILAIZHONGSHITONGXUEZHIJIANDEGUANXI 。CHUNQIUSHIQIGUANZHONGHEBAOSHUYADEGUANXIBEIYUWEITONGXUEGUANXIDEDIANFAN,SUOYIHOULAIRENMENBATONGXUEZHIJIANDESHENHOUYOU YIJIAOZUO“GUANBAOZHIJIAO”。MINJIANHAIYOUJULAOHUASHUO:“YIBEIZITONGXUESANBEIZIQIN。”KEJIANWOMENDEQIANRENSHIDUOMEKANZHONGTONGXUEZHIJIANDEGUANXI。

SHI:DANWOMENSHIRUHEDUIDAISHENBIANDETONGXUEDENI?YOUYIXIERENCONGXIAOJIUBEICHENGWEIHUAIXUESHENG,QIFUSHENBIANDETONGXUE,RANGTONGXUEDUISHANGXUECHANSHENGKONGJU。HAIYOUYIXIERENCHULIBUHAOTONGXUEGUANXI,YUTONGXUEJIAOE,YINGXIANGXUEXI,YEYINGXIANGZIJICHENGZHANG。TONGXUEGUANXIZHIZHONGYAO,WOMENYINGGAIRUHEJIANLILIANGHAODETONGXUEGUANXINI?

SHENG1:TONGXUEZHIJIANYINGXIANGHUHEZUO。

魔方娱乐SHENG2:TONGXUEZHIJIANXIANGHUKUANRONG,DONGDEBAORONGBIEREN。

SHENG3:TONGXUEZHIJIANXIANGHUZUNZHONG,XIANGHULIJIE。

魔方娱乐SHENG4:TONGXUEZHIJIANYAOZHENCHENGXIANGDAI。

SHI:NG,QISHIDAJIASHUOCHULEJIANLILIANGHAOTONGXUEGUANXIDEGUANJIANDIAN。

魔方娱乐YI、LIJIEYUZUNZHONG。DEGUOXUEZHESIPULANGESHUO:“ZAIRENDEYISHENGZHONG,ZAIYEMEIYOUXIANGQINGNIANSHIQIYOUNEIYANGDEQIANGLIEDIKEWANGBEILIJIEDEYUANWANG。MEIYOURENHERENXIANGQINGNIANNEIYANGCHUZAIGUDUZHIZHONG,KEWANGZHEBEIRENJIESHOUHELIJIE。”MEIGERENDOUYOUZIJIDEQIZHIHEXINGGETEDIAN,BUTONGDECHENGZHANGBEIJINGHESHENGHUOXIGUAN,SUOYIZAIYUTONGXUEJIAOWANGDEGUOCHENGZHONG,RUGUONENGHUXIANGLIJIEZUNZHONG,DAJIADEGUANXIJIURONGYIRONGQIA,YEHUIJIANSHAOBUBIYAODEMOCA。

RENJIJIAOWANG“HUANGJINFAZE”SHIZHEIYANGDE:XIANGNIXIWANGBIERENDUININEIYANGQUDUIDAIBIEREN。KEWANGWANGWOBAZHONGDEXUDUORENBAZHEIGEFAZEYONGFANLE。YEJIUSHI“FANHUANGJINFAZE”:XIWANGBIERENXIANGZIJIDUIDAITANEIYANGDUIDAIZIJI,WODUITAHAO,TAJIUYINGGAIDUIWOHAO,ZAIXINLIXUESHANGZHEICHENGWEIBUHELIDE、JUEDUIHUADEYAOQIU。

魔方娱乐ER、XUEHUIKUANRONG。FASHENGZHENGCHAODELIANGGETONGXUE,SHEIYEBULISHEI,SHEIYEBUXIANGXIANDAPOGANGADEJUMIAN,QISHILIANGRENNEIXINDOUXIANGJIESHUZHEIYANGDEXINQING。ZHEIJIUXUYAOWOMENXUEHUIKUANRONG,JINGCHANGHUANWEISIKAO。TONGXUEZHIJIANZHANGQISHENGHUOZAIYIQI,YOUSHIYENANMIANYOUDIANKEKEPENGPENG,ZHEISHIYIDINGYAOHUXIANGLIANGJIE。JUWODUONIANLAIDELEJIE,TONGXUEZHIJIANDEMOCADUOSHUDOUSHIWUYIDE,ZHIYAOYIFANGSHUOJU“DUIBUQI”、LINGYIFANGSHUOJU“MEIGUANXI” ,DOUHUIHENKUAIDEDAOJIEJUE。JIBIANGEBIEQINGKUANGXIAYIFANGSHIGUYIDE,RUGUOBUTAIGUOFEN,ZHIYAOLINGYIFANGBIAOXIANDEDA DUYIDIAN,YEBUHUIZAOCHENGSHENMEMAODUN。YIGERENDUIBIERENNENGKUANRONGRENRANG,YOUSHIBIAOMIANKANHAOXIANGCHILEDIANKUI,QISHI TABAOCHILEYUKUAIDEXINQINGHELIANGHAODERENJIGUANXI,QIAQIASHIZUIDADESHOUYIZHE。YIGEZAIBANJILIRENJIGUANXIHAODETONGXUE,BINGBUSHITAHERENHERENDOUMEIYOUFASHENGGUOMOCA,ERSHITAJISHIHUAJIELEGEZHONGMAODUN。

魔方娱乐SAN、HUXIANGBANGZHU,TANCHENGXIANGDAI。TONGXUEZHIJIANYAOHUXIANGBANGZHU,YAOREXINBANGZHUBIEREN,YEYAOLEYUJIESHOUBIERENDEBANGZHU。BANGZHULEBIERENBUYAOYAOQIUHUIBAO,YOUQIBUYAOXIWANGBIERENDANGSHIHUIBAO;JIESHOULEBIERENBANGZHUYAOCHENGXINCHENGYIDIBIAOSHIGANXIE。JIJIBANGZHUTONGXUENENGGOUZAIXUESHENGJITIZHONG,SHULIQIJIAOGAODEWEIXIN。DANGTONGXUECHUYUKUNNANZHIZHONGDESHIHOU,WOMENYINGGAISHENCHUYOUAIZHISHOU,ZHUDONGDEBANGZHUTONGXUEJIEJUEKUNNAN,JISHIWUFABANGZHUJIEJUE,ZHIYAOWOMENYUANYIQINGTINGTONGXUEDUIZIJIKUNNANHUOTONGKUDESUSHUO,ZHEIYESHIBANGZHU。DANGZIJISUNSHANGLEBIERENDESHIHOU,YAOYONGGAN,ZHUDONGDIRENCUO,JISHIDEPEIGEBUSHI,BINGJIUZHENGZIJIDEGUOCUO。YIJINGWUFAJIUZHENGDECUOWUZHUDONGCHENGDAN,CHENGXINJIESHOUBIERENDEZENAN,ZHEIYANGDUIFANGJIUBUHAOYISIDUINIDADONGGANGE。RUGUODUIFANGBUMINGZHENXIANG,HUOZHECHUNSHUQIAOHEERCHANSHENGWUJIE,NIBUBIANZHIJIEJIESHI,CHULENAIXINDENGDAIZHIWAI,HAIKEYIQIUZHUYULAOSHIHETONGXUE,RANGTAMENCHUMIANSHUTONG。

SI、YAOZHUZHONGZISHENRENGESUZAOHENENGLIDEPEIYANG。CHANGTINGDAOYOUTONGXUEJIANG:“NEIRENXINGGEHAO,DONGDEDUO,SUOYIXIHUANTONGTAJIAOLIU”,DEQUE,YIGEPINZHIHAO、NENGLIQIANGDERENHUOJUYOUMOUXIETEZHANGDERENGENGRONGYISHOUDAORENMENDEXIAI。RENMENXINSHANGTADEPINGE、CAINENG,YINERYUANYIYUZHIJIEJIN,CHENGWEIPENGYOU。SUOYI,RUOXIANGYAOZENGQIANGRENJIXIYINLI,GENGYOUHAO、GENGRONGQIADIYUTARENXIANGCHU,JIUYINGCHONGFENJIANQUANZIJIDEPINGE,SHIZHANZIJIDECAIHUA,BIAOXIANZIJIDETEZHANG,SHIZIJIDEPINGE、NENGLI、CAIHUABUDUANTIGAO。RENMENXIHUANZHENCHENG、REQING、YOUHAODEREN,TAOYANXUWEI、ZISI、LENGKUDEREN。DUIGEXINGPINZHIYIBANPINGJIAZUIGAODESHIZHENCHENG,PINGJIAZUIDIDESHIXUWEI。XUANZEPENGYOU,SHOUXIANKAOLVDESHIGEXINGPINZHI,HENDUOTONGXUEYUANYUCHENGSHU、REQING、TANLV、SIXIANGHUOYUE、YOUZERENGANDERENDUOJIAOWANG。SHIXIANG,YIGEZISHENSUYANGGAODERENZENMEKENENGYUSHIJIUPOKOUDAMA、QUANJIAOXIANGJIANI?

TONGXUEGUANXISHIYIZHONGRENJIGUANXI,BANJI、XUEXIAOSHIYIGEXIAOXINGSHEHUI,ZAIZHEIGEXIAOJITIZHONGXUEHUICHULIHAOTONGXUEGUANXI,JIANGLAIZOUSHANGSHEHUICAINENGSHANYUCHULIGEZHONGFUZADERENJIGUANXI,SHIYINGSHEHUI、YINGXIANGSHEHUI。 SUOYI,LAOSHIZAIZHEILITIXINGWOMENTONGXUE,RUGUOZHISHIYIXIEJIMAOSUANPIDEXIAOSHIYINQIDEMAODUN,MEIYOUQIANSHEDAOSHENMEDADELIHAICHONGTU,NEIMEZHIYAODAJIAGERANGYIBU,BUJIUMEISHILE,SUHUASHUO:RENYISHIFENGPINGLANGJING,TUIYIBUHAIKUOTIANKONG,DASHIHUAXIAO,XIAOSHIHUAWUMA。YAOSHIYUSHANGDAMAODUNLE,ZIJIJIEJUEBULELE,NEIMEWOMENKEYIQINGLAOSHIBANGZHUJIEJUE。KENENGYOUYIXIETONGXUERENWEIBAZIJIHEBIERENDEMAODUNGAOSULAOSHIJIU“DAXIAOBAOGAO”,QISHIZHEIXIETONGXUEDEXIANGFASHICUOWUDE,YINWEISHISHISHANG,YOUXIESHIQING、HUOZHESHUOYOUXIESHIQINGFAZHANDAOYIDINGDECHENGDUBINGBUSHINIDENENGLISUONENGJIEJUEDE。SUOYI,WOMENBIXUXUEHUIXUNQIUBANGZHU,TUOSHANJIEJUEWENTI。

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